A friend of mine just broke up with her 3-years boyfriend, and my ex-schoolmate just broke up with his 2-years girlfriend. entorghh lerr, musim kot sekarang ni? and i am pretty sure, some of us will go 'homaigosh, 3 tahun couple, lepastu clash macam tu je? gila buang masa'-sort of-talk which is kinda HEARTLESS. Seriously, we cannot learn from other people's mistakes, we'll have to go out there and make our own. And i'm speaking from my experienceS. Having 25 ex-boyfriends (whaddup!) when you are 21 years old is not something you can be proud of dan semestinya bukan cerita yang boleh disebarkan kepada cucucicit pada masa hadapan. Bila musim bercerai-berai ni ramai lah yang menangis meroyan bergulingan bergelimpangan sampai makan tak kenyang, mandi tak basah dan sebagainya. Which is normal. Lepastu bila dah get over him/her, punya lah bersumpah berikrar susun lima jari rapat-rapat TAK AKAN couple lagi lepas ni. Lepas tu terus tukar status facebook dari In A Realtionship kepada Single. Kalau ada Single and Available, lagi hah mesti trending lepas clash kan. Lepas tu mulalah hilang kepercayaan kat semua manusia lain spesis dalam dunia ni. Also, speaking from my experience. Bila ada lelaki nak bermadah cinta sikit mula lah 'ala, entah-entah kau pun sama macam si polan tu'. SERIOUSLY KAN? Tapi, bukan semua manusia ni sama. Dah nasib kau nak dapat si polan yang bernafsu binatang, berfikiran syaiton, man-whore, i love you-but not only you, atau pun yang sekadar menanam tebu di pinggir bibir sahaja. Everything happens for a reason. And i must admit, each break up made me stronger and kinda heartless but in a good way. And more alert i guess, about guys and relationship. And it makes me realize there is nothing more important than my family because they will always be there for me. Oh and ada kes yang sampai nak bunuh diri sebab putus cinta, i know, been there, Alhamdulliah tak terlintas pun. Jangan pentingkan diri sendiri, fikirkan parents kau tu, mak kau dok ke hulu ke hilir 9 bulan kandung kau dalam perut, kau tendang sepak terajang perut mak kau, ayah kau jaga kau bagi duit setiap hari, mak kau susukan kau, lepastu kau senang-senang nak blah macam tu je? Kau ingat kau siapa? Heartbroken my ass ! Just believe in yourself, believe in GOD. And remember, your forever is out there somewhere, have faith lovers. Let us just wait and appreciate what we have now. Okai ? All the single ladies, put your hands up!. (:
p/s: i am also waiting for my prince charming. waiting and waiting. (:
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